Hi everyone,
My name is Matt and well I have lived my entire life blinded by the truth who on who is my real dad. I just recently was informed by own mother that my real dad was from Hawaii. I'm 21 and have lived my whole life lead to belive that this other man in my moms life is my father. It's a very unique/stressful sitiuation that I'm in right now. Let me share it with you. This is all of the info that I have and all that my mom remembers. Hopefully you guys can be of some assistance.
Between the years 1983 to 1985 my mom use to rent out cottages along Gulf blvd in Maderia beach, Florida. She had a very rocky marriage and was very poor. Well one day a guy by the name of Ben came up to her and wanted to rent a cottage for his parents. After talking, they started dating, for only about 2 months. My mom said that he wanted to help her and her kids, he wanted to marry her. My mom said that he use to call her "his ever dearest susan/susie". According to my mother, he was a computer programmer/anaylst and always dressed to impress. After 2 months she had recieved notcied from a friend of Ben's stating that he passed away in a motorcycle accident.
Well she moved on and then I was born. She doesnt know if he acutally died or he just got his friend to tell her that so he wouldnt have to date her anymore. I could understand this, as she was still legally married at the time.
Ben doesnt know that I exist and wouldnt have known that I exist. I'm am on a mission to find him and his family: MY other family. If anyone could help or has any info please post up. I will give my number to anyone who has valuble info.
Recap
His name is Ben. I dont know the last name.
He was a computer programmer/analysist
He was in St. Pete/ Maderia Beach Floridia around 1983-85
He was from Hawaii. Wanted to bring his parents to the cottage to visit from Hawaii.
Took my mom on picnics
Might have died in a motorcycle accident in 1984/85 in florida.
Im sorry for such crappy info, but thats all I have to go on. My mother has put a $2500 ad in the Metro section of the St. Pete Times newspaper in search for him. I have posted several ads on Craigslist and other sites in search of him/his family.
To whoever sees this, Ben/ Ben's parents/friends of Ben. You have a healthy 21 year/old son/grandson that according to my mom is a spitting image of Ben. Ben would be in his 50's by now if hes alive, and hopefully his parents are still alive. I wouldbnt be surprised if Ben had his own family/kids etc, so Any fathers out there in thier 50's that dated a white woman in the 80's in floridia, think twice because this might be your son.
Soory for the length, and any help would be greatly appreciated,
Matt
My name is Matt and well I have lived my entire life blinded by the truth who on who is my real dad. I just recently was informed by own mother that my real dad was from Hawaii. I'm 21 and have lived my whole life lead to belive that this other man in my moms life is my father. It's a very unique/stressful sitiuation that I'm in right now. Let me share it with you. This is all of the info that I have and all that my mom remembers. Hopefully you guys can be of some assistance.
Between the years 1983 to 1985 my mom use to rent out cottages along Gulf blvd in Maderia beach, Florida. She had a very rocky marriage and was very poor. Well one day a guy by the name of Ben came up to her and wanted to rent a cottage for his parents. After talking, they started dating, for only about 2 months. My mom said that he wanted to help her and her kids, he wanted to marry her. My mom said that he use to call her "his ever dearest susan/susie". According to my mother, he was a computer programmer/anaylst and always dressed to impress. After 2 months she had recieved notcied from a friend of Ben's stating that he passed away in a motorcycle accident.
Well she moved on and then I was born. She doesnt know if he acutally died or he just got his friend to tell her that so he wouldnt have to date her anymore. I could understand this, as she was still legally married at the time.
Ben doesnt know that I exist and wouldnt have known that I exist. I'm am on a mission to find him and his family: MY other family. If anyone could help or has any info please post up. I will give my number to anyone who has valuble info.
Recap
His name is Ben. I dont know the last name.
He was a computer programmer/analysist
He was in St. Pete/ Maderia Beach Floridia around 1983-85
He was from Hawaii. Wanted to bring his parents to the cottage to visit from Hawaii.
Took my mom on picnics
Might have died in a motorcycle accident in 1984/85 in florida.
Im sorry for such crappy info, but thats all I have to go on. My mother has put a $2500 ad in the Metro section of the St. Pete Times newspaper in search for him. I have posted several ads on Craigslist and other sites in search of him/his family.
To whoever sees this, Ben/ Ben's parents/friends of Ben. You have a healthy 21 year/old son/grandson that according to my mom is a spitting image of Ben. Ben would be in his 50's by now if hes alive, and hopefully his parents are still alive. I wouldbnt be surprised if Ben had his own family/kids etc, so Any fathers out there in thier 50's that dated a white woman in the 80's in floridia, think twice because this might be your son.
Soory for the length, and any help would be greatly appreciated,
Matt
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