ok, here is my short of long story that becomes a question...
If your family (or someone in your family), is givng your spouse grief,
would you side with your family, or side with your spouse?
who is the most important first & formost in your life??
personally, I think my hubby should side with me as I have been siding with him from the grief I have been getting from some parts of my family (NOT to say that they are all bad, just some them are).
I always thought of him as first & formost (in my life), irregardless if I was working or not.
Or, if I had a friend(s) or family member(s) who disliked him, I would say who cares, I would still side with my spouse, because he is my husband, lover, & best friend .
Am I in the wrong here? &/or what would you do?
How do you feel?
I just feel kinda down right now, cuz, his half sister off & on uses me as her (mental) punching bag, cuz thats how she was treated in her past, & she has a heart conditon that I can't speak my mind kindly to her because I know I would be just getting mad, so I asked my hubby to speak to her for me.
Personaly, I don't give a hoot right now if this is on the internet & the whole entire world can probably read this!!.
I just need a lot of feed back, to let me know if I am wrong or write or how do you feel about it, & what would you do etc.
From yours truly .
If your family (or someone in your family), is givng your spouse grief,
would you side with your family, or side with your spouse?
who is the most important first & formost in your life??
personally, I think my hubby should side with me as I have been siding with him from the grief I have been getting from some parts of my family (NOT to say that they are all bad, just some them are).
I always thought of him as first & formost (in my life), irregardless if I was working or not.
Or, if I had a friend(s) or family member(s) who disliked him, I would say who cares, I would still side with my spouse, because he is my husband, lover, & best friend .
Am I in the wrong here? &/or what would you do?
How do you feel?
I just feel kinda down right now, cuz, his half sister off & on uses me as her (mental) punching bag, cuz thats how she was treated in her past, & she has a heart conditon that I can't speak my mind kindly to her because I know I would be just getting mad, so I asked my hubby to speak to her for me.
Personaly, I don't give a hoot right now if this is on the internet & the whole entire world can probably read this!!.
I just need a lot of feed back, to let me know if I am wrong or write or how do you feel about it, & what would you do etc.
From yours truly .
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