"Get over it & move on." That's not an easy thing for me to do, & it continues to haunt me, & I really don't want to confront the person about it, because it is so old already, & yet it still bothers me :-(. I hate it!!. It is very difficult to call this friend, because I feel that I seem to be walking on egg shells around her when or if I do call. She tends to want to bite people's head off w/o reason, & that is the indication I got from her. sigh :-(.
I called her up once, she bit my head off, although, I forgave her. Much later down the road, I called a 2nd time, & wouldn't you know it!!, yup!!, she bit my head off again
. It has been really difficult for me to call her, & I just do ok with sending her a message in facebook. Then again, she may call me up & say & yell at me with "WTF??!!" or something similar to that.
what to do? you know? If I do send her a message, & she may end up retaliating by calling me up & getting mad at me, if I do decide to re hash it again.
I just can't seem to get over it. That's my problem. :-(. I don't want her to be (or hear her) yelling at me either.
I did that once with another friend of mine from long before, & gawd!, all she did was send me 3 to 4 yelling messages on my voice mail, which led me shook up, & could not get over for weeks to come, either. Maybe it was easier for me to get over that, because that friend lives in Arizona & not here in Hawaii, & the fact that she deleted me off of her list of friends in Facebook too.lol. . The other first one I spoke of, she lives here in Oahu, & still is in my facebook. If I do delete her, she may feel offended.
sigh. what to do, what to do.
I called her up once, she bit my head off, although, I forgave her. Much later down the road, I called a 2nd time, & wouldn't you know it!!, yup!!, she bit my head off again

what to do? you know? If I do send her a message, & she may end up retaliating by calling me up & getting mad at me, if I do decide to re hash it again.
I just can't seem to get over it. That's my problem. :-(. I don't want her to be (or hear her) yelling at me either.
I did that once with another friend of mine from long before, & gawd!, all she did was send me 3 to 4 yelling messages on my voice mail, which led me shook up, & could not get over for weeks to come, either. Maybe it was easier for me to get over that, because that friend lives in Arizona & not here in Hawaii, & the fact that she deleted me off of her list of friends in Facebook too.lol. . The other first one I spoke of, she lives here in Oahu, & still is in my facebook. If I do delete her, she may feel offended.
sigh. what to do, what to do.


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