Hello everyone, my name is Derek. First I'd like to thank anyone who is taking the time to read my post and respond. Any advice would be appreciated.
I am considering moving to either Hawaii or South Florida. I am lucky enough to have traveled to almost every state in the country due to the fact that my aunt works for Northwest Airlines and used to be able to get buddy passes (before they went broke). I am lucky to have done this. I hate the cold and love a tropical climate, and these are the only two places in the county that have this type of climate. I am 26 and live in North Carolina right now. I first went to Hawaii in 1995 and have been there 5 times total. I stayed a month there in 1997. I am a property manager for apartments complexes now, and I could probably find a job on Oahu, but it would pay less than what I make now.
I realize how expensive Hawaii and Honolulu are, and I am willing to accept the change in lifestyle and sacrifice. I know most of the bad and good things to living in Hawaii but am unsure about one thing in particular. My question deals with how hard is it to make friends in Hawaii. When I was there I didn't see that many young people where I went. I am a respectful and decent person, but in Hawaii no one really talked to me and tried to get to know me like when I went to Florida. Everywhere I went in Florida people would try to get to know me and make friends. In Hawaii I got the feeling that everyone already had there group of friends and was like "who are you, why are you talking to me?" I beleive it may be that in South Florida so many people there are new, so they were like me and looking to make friends. In Hawaii the only people that would talk to me I found out later after talking didn't live there. Did I just not go to the right places or what? Is is really that hard to make friends in Hawaii? I really like everything else about Hawaii better than Florida.
I am considering moving to either Hawaii or South Florida. I am lucky enough to have traveled to almost every state in the country due to the fact that my aunt works for Northwest Airlines and used to be able to get buddy passes (before they went broke). I am lucky to have done this. I hate the cold and love a tropical climate, and these are the only two places in the county that have this type of climate. I am 26 and live in North Carolina right now. I first went to Hawaii in 1995 and have been there 5 times total. I stayed a month there in 1997. I am a property manager for apartments complexes now, and I could probably find a job on Oahu, but it would pay less than what I make now.
I realize how expensive Hawaii and Honolulu are, and I am willing to accept the change in lifestyle and sacrifice. I know most of the bad and good things to living in Hawaii but am unsure about one thing in particular. My question deals with how hard is it to make friends in Hawaii. When I was there I didn't see that many young people where I went. I am a respectful and decent person, but in Hawaii no one really talked to me and tried to get to know me like when I went to Florida. Everywhere I went in Florida people would try to get to know me and make friends. In Hawaii I got the feeling that everyone already had there group of friends and was like "who are you, why are you talking to me?" I beleive it may be that in South Florida so many people there are new, so they were like me and looking to make friends. In Hawaii the only people that would talk to me I found out later after talking didn't live there. Did I just not go to the right places or what? Is is really that hard to make friends in Hawaii? I really like everything else about Hawaii better than Florida.
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