I am not sure exactly where to place this, but I figure that it does have relation to family.
Not to bumm out anyone, but I just needed a few info. or so in regards to this..
My hubby's mom is in I.C.U. and we all don't know how long she has left,
but, the story is, that my hubby's mom is suppose to pass away on Nov. 9, 2004 because her mom also passed away on that date.
There was a a coversation about that she wasn't going to go until everyone is at peace & ready for her to go. I tried to tell my hubby's mom, I just couldn't let her go without crying & having pain in my heart for her to go. I was crying as I was telling her that it was ok for her to go. My hubby's sister says that,"her brothers have already accepted her to go & that when I do tell her, I shouldn't be crying & should be brave to let her go". I guess trying my best to tell my hubby's mom & also meaning it in my heart is a 2 different thing.
How do any of you accept it, & to mean it so that your loved one will know & feel it that it is ok?.
I seem & feel that I am having a hard time with this.
I know that it is a natural thing,
I just need to learn, know & feel in my heart that is is ok.
How do I do that?.
Not to bumm out anyone, but I just needed a few info. or so in regards to this..
My hubby's mom is in I.C.U. and we all don't know how long she has left,
but, the story is, that my hubby's mom is suppose to pass away on Nov. 9, 2004 because her mom also passed away on that date.
There was a a coversation about that she wasn't going to go until everyone is at peace & ready for her to go. I tried to tell my hubby's mom, I just couldn't let her go without crying & having pain in my heart for her to go. I was crying as I was telling her that it was ok for her to go. My hubby's sister says that,"her brothers have already accepted her to go & that when I do tell her, I shouldn't be crying & should be brave to let her go". I guess trying my best to tell my hubby's mom & also meaning it in my heart is a 2 different thing.
How do any of you accept it, & to mean it so that your loved one will know & feel it that it is ok?.
I seem & feel that I am having a hard time with this.
I know that it is a natural thing,
I just need to learn, know & feel in my heart that is is ok.
How do I do that?.
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