Re: how do you cope?
Thank you all for the kind words of encouragement. I suppose, deep down, I felt that HT would be a place where I could talk without 'knowing' anyone and get stuff out that I have no one to talk to about. I go through spurts of being emotionally overwhelmed but thankfully I'm usually in the car for my hour long commute when that happens. My coping methods so far have been just keeping my mind full of other things weather it be all the new season openers of shows coming on or work, and even posting on my favorite forums.
Auntie, thank you for reminding me to pray. In all the turmoil, I can't believe I've forgotten.
As far as the dog: He was a stray that they picked up at the spca. When they first got him, he was dog agressive. That went away after he was neutered. He shows no interest in other dogs and no interest in cats either. He's all about his humans. If you let him out to do his business... he wants to come back in with you. Demands attention. Will push himself against your leg to get attention.
Things we've noticed about his past were that someone must've beaten him with a black tv cable wire. My wife picked up a coil of it one day and he hit the deck as if he'd done something wrong. If you raised your voice to him, he'd cower easily. He has this weird behavior of sucking on his blanket. We figure he was weaned away from his mother too early. And after the incident with me, I'm pretty convinced someone in his previous household (probably the man) used to beat other people. (probably his wife)
After his 2 bite incidences with my wife, totalling 6 stitches, we sought the advice of our veterenarian as well as the spca. Both suggested we hire a dog behaviorist/trainer. We took their advice and hired one. She's the one I mentioned in my original post. I feel we have done everything we could and not haphazardly rushed to bring him back to the SPCA. We love him and that's what makes it so difficult. Bottom line for us that we've made EVERYONE clear of is that we DO NOT want him put down.
Thank you all for the kind words of encouragement. I suppose, deep down, I felt that HT would be a place where I could talk without 'knowing' anyone and get stuff out that I have no one to talk to about. I go through spurts of being emotionally overwhelmed but thankfully I'm usually in the car for my hour long commute when that happens. My coping methods so far have been just keeping my mind full of other things weather it be all the new season openers of shows coming on or work, and even posting on my favorite forums.
Auntie, thank you for reminding me to pray. In all the turmoil, I can't believe I've forgotten.
As far as the dog: He was a stray that they picked up at the spca. When they first got him, he was dog agressive. That went away after he was neutered. He shows no interest in other dogs and no interest in cats either. He's all about his humans. If you let him out to do his business... he wants to come back in with you. Demands attention. Will push himself against your leg to get attention.
Things we've noticed about his past were that someone must've beaten him with a black tv cable wire. My wife picked up a coil of it one day and he hit the deck as if he'd done something wrong. If you raised your voice to him, he'd cower easily. He has this weird behavior of sucking on his blanket. We figure he was weaned away from his mother too early. And after the incident with me, I'm pretty convinced someone in his previous household (probably the man) used to beat other people. (probably his wife)
After his 2 bite incidences with my wife, totalling 6 stitches, we sought the advice of our veterenarian as well as the spca. Both suggested we hire a dog behaviorist/trainer. We took their advice and hired one. She's the one I mentioned in my original post. I feel we have done everything we could and not haphazardly rushed to bring him back to the SPCA. We love him and that's what makes it so difficult. Bottom line for us that we've made EVERYONE clear of is that we DO NOT want him put down.
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